Connor + Maggie {wedding} :: Auburn, Ala.

How did you two meet?

Maggie: "Connor and I met one summer in Auburn when we were at 1716 with mutual friends. Connor worked at home during the summers, but had made a trip down to visit for the weekend. We immediately hit it off as friends. I found Connor to be really fun and laid back. He was almost a little too goofy sometimes-- definitely too goofy to date so I thought-- but I knew there was just something different about him from the get go. It didn't take long to realize that Connor was different that anyone else I'd ever met, and we definitely connected on a different level. All that to say, sometimes you do marry the guy you meet in a bar!"

Connor: "We met at 1716-- a bar in Auburn. We were sitting across the bar from each other. A few friends I was with knew her, so when she looked over at us, I winked at her. She smiled and then I knew I had to go talk to her."

What are some things y'all like to do together? 

Maggie: "Living in North Carolina with no close friends or family here, Connor and I have A LOT of time to spend together. We both love being outside and have a shared passion for hunting. We have two yellow labs, and spend a lot of time with them between riding in our '97 Jeep and taking our duck boat out on the river."

Connor: "Literally everything. Well, atleast I like to do everything with Maggie-- I don’t know if she likes to do everything with me (lol). Specifically some of my favorites are: cooking, taking the boat out, going hunting, going to the beach, riding around in our jeep, teaching and learning from each other."

How and when did Connor propose? 

Maggie: "Connor proposed at my parents’ farm on September 8, 2018. It was such a special weekend because my dad had planned this huge opening day dove hunt, and we had many friends and family coming down for the 'hunt.' All day, Connor seemed nervous and spent most of the day avoiding me, hanging out with my dad and finding things to do on the farm. Living in North Carolina, we don't see family much so I did appreciate the opportunity to spend some much needed time with my momma. We were all sitting around my kitchen chatting when Con suddenly pops up, grabs my hand and says come on I need to talk to you. He dragged me around the corner of the house, and I knew what was about to happen (mind you - my dad, mom and brother had all spilled the beans at some point that day). Connor proposed with the kindest words under the most gorgeous large shade tree. It was the most heartfelt and 'us' proposal I could imagine. Within minutes, my best friends pulled up the driveway after traveling in from Atlanta and Connor's family drove down from Huntsville to celebrate. We ended the day with a successful dove hunt surrounded by our closest family and friends!"

Connor: "It was the morning of opening day of dove season at the Coosa Rise Farm annual dove shoot (aka The Barlow’s farm). Before guests started arriving, I asked Maggie to come outside real quick. We walked around to the side of the house under a big shade tree that overlooked the front of their farm, and that where I asked Maggie if she would marry me."

Connor--what's one of the things you admire most about Maggie?

Connor: "I admire her personality. She is very compassionate, loyal and encouraging."

Maggie-- what's one of the things you admire most about Connor?

Maggie: "Connor is the most hardworking person I have ever met, and he always follows through on his word. His passion and drive for everything he sets his mind to is unmatched, and this translates to both his work and hobbies. He loves his job, and never says 'no' to the challenges he faces working in the agriculture industry. He comes home even after the longest days and makes sure we have everything we need at home. He works hard to spoil me with all my 'wants' and (rarely) says 'no' to my wildest dreams. His hardworking nature drives me to be abetter version of myself."

What was each yall's favorite part of the day?
Connor: Our first look. I had talked to Maggie on the phone multiple times that morning. I could not wait to see her and be alone for a few minutes. It was such a relief to be able to sit together, relax and laugh about how nervous and excited we were for the rest of the day."

Maggie: "My favorite part of the day was our first look and the time we had together prior to the ceremony. I was so against it when we first started planning, but knew it would settle my nerves to see Con first, and he really advocated for this time together. His reaction was so 'Connor,' and was the best feeling seeing him sigh a breath of relief when we were finally able to hug. Prior to the ceremony, we were able to pull away to my parent’s room and just take a few minutes to ourselves to talk. We giggled about the morning, talked about our nerves of the day, and just took the time to let everything seep in. All this time together before the ceremony didn't take away from the emotions I felt walking down the aisle and that we both felt standing at the altar (and Connor still teared up)!"

What's next for you two? 
Maggie: "Our hope is to one day move back south to be closer to our families! We'd like to travel some, and eventually settle down with a family!!"

Vendors:
Venue + planning: Crooked Oaks Farm
Planning: Melanie Grace Weddings & Events
Video: 1717 Wedding Cinema
HMU: Kaylee Jones
Dress: Carriage House Weddings
BM dresses: Show Me Your Mumu
Tuxes: Jos. A. Bank
Rings: Alan & Co.
Flowers: Kim Nelson with Bloomwoods Flowers
Groom's cake and white bride's cake: Cakeapotamus 
Bride's cakes: Edgar's Bakery
Catering: Kelsey Clark with KBC
Linens (with crests): French Table
Invitations: Ink Sugar Co.
Band: 4 Barrel Funk with Music Garden
Ceremony music: Auburn Quartet

Hamiter-- family + adoption journey {2019}

Tell us how you and Trace met and a little more about your family:

Cassie: "Trace and I met at Auburn University in a weight lifting class! We became fast friends before we started dating the next year. We were married two weeks after graduation and will celebrate 15 years of marriage in May! He is my greatest earthly gift, and I am humbled and grateful to be chosen and pursued by him every single day.”

Cassie: “We are the proud parents of five stellar children the Lord has very graciously entrusted us with. Micah and Judah both came to us through the miracle of adoption while Taylor, Gray and Cayden through miracle of biological birth. We could not imagine our lives any different. God is the master Creator, and the way he has created our family humbles me to the core daily.  We are so undeserving of His good gifts, but graciously accept them in the light of the Cross.

Taylor is 12, and our little right hand mama! She loves her brothers so well! Her gentle spirit, fierce love for justice and for all people of all walks of life, and desire to know more of Him is an inspiration to us daily. 

Gray is 9, and is extremely thoughtful and selfless. He loves all things sports, but his favorites are very intricately following college football and basketball! His love for others and desire to befriend the least of these flows out of him authentically.  

Micah is 8, and you can't help but to have a good time when he's around! He is the toughest kid I know-- full of grit and an extremely hard worker-- just like his daddy. Micah asks the best questions, loves one on one time and is super hard to catch him without a smile. His true JOY for life is so contagious.   

Cayden is 7, and is fearless, brave, a risk taker and up for any adventure you throw his way. He is a social butterfly and the way he includes people is humbling. Cayden is deeply loyal and a noticer of details and people. 

Judah is 2, and is the beloved baby of the family. We just came home with him from India two short months ago. He is extremely resilient and catches on to things so fast. He is SO snuggly and is smothered in love by all his siblings. He loves to eat all the time, and gives hugs and kisses any chance he gets. 

We also have another daughter, Avery, who we lost in 2008-- and is now dancing at the feet of Jesus.”

Did you have expectations of how many kids you would have before you got married?  

Cassie: "Trace and I always joke about this. He always says, 'She wanted four— I wanted two—so we compromised with four!' Now, we have added one more to make five :) and Trace would have 10 if we could."

When did adoption become a part of yall's story?  

Cassie: "I always had a deep desire to adopt. When we started talking about it, adoption wasn't something Trace had given much thought, but shortly after we prayed about it, he was all in.  We started the adoption process for Micah in 2012. We came home from China with him in November of 2013."

Tell us a little about your newest adoption:  

Cassie: "In 2015, we started our second adoption in Haiti. We invested a lot of heart, finances and time into Haiti, but the Lord closed that door in December of 2017. While it was heartbreaking and confusing to navigate, we were sure and confident that we didn't have it 'wrong' to enter into Haiti, and to stay there as long as we did, but that the Lord was taking us in a different direction and it just wasn't right anymore. We believe our hearts will always be connected to Haiti, and it was a joy and honor to get to petition the Father for the orphan population in Haiti, as well as the people and country itself. We followed His lead to India in January of 2018 and were matched with the most precious big brown eyed 14-month-old, we would later name Judah Austin. We traveled to pick him up and brought him home in February of 2019.”

Do you have any words of wisdom for those wanting to adopt?  

Cassie: "I know the process looks daunting, long, financially and emotionally strenuous from the beginning-- BUT I will tell you, at the end-- it's like a drop in the bucket because you have this precious life who has been miraculously entrusted to you and you can't imagine life without them. PRAY and TRUST. There are many unknowns, long waits, setbacks and unexpected turns for the better or worse— but we serve a sovereign God who doesn't change, and His faithfulness and provision is constant. He will sustain you and give you the grace you need, for every day, one day at a time. The whole process is a gift really. The Lord reveals His faithfulness and love to you and for you in a completely different way. Your heart is stretched in a million different directions, and you are daily reminded that we are created to need Jesus daily and be filled by Him alone."

Any advice for new parents to the adoption adventure? 

Cassie: "Be flexible and throw those expectations out the window! Your sweet baby-- no matter where they were born and how old they are-- has experienced trauma in their little life that most likely you or I have ever known. Trust, trust, trust in the One who loves your baby more than you could ever even fathom and knows every day of their life. ASK Him for that trust in Him if you lack it or lack the faith. He is so faithful-- so so faithful-- to meet you right where you are at and carry you. God is not a duplicator, so if this is not your first child, don't expect things to go the same way. Be flexible and give a little or a lot where you need to. Choose joy, choose thankfulness and choose patience. Ask for help! You are not weaker if you ask for help from your agency professionals, team of doctors and most of all your family and community. We are created to be interdependent, so don't forget you and your spouse were never meant to do this on your own! People want to love you and serve you, sometimes they just don't know how. I feel like I could go on and on about what the Lord has shown me and how He's refined me through parenthood-- and specifically through adoption-- but my last bit of advice would be to just remember grace. There will be some days when you can't remember how to function as a human, much less to be grateful or gracious, but take a moment, at least one moment, every day to remember to dish out the grace for yourself. I'm a strong believer in the grace that has been lavished on us through Jesus, and He so badly wants you to see that for yourself. So, in the good and bad, high and low-- there is always grace from the Giver of all good gifts and the One who never grows weary."

Matthew + Kristin {married four years} :: Centreville, Ala.

Tell us how you two met and when you got married.

Kristin: "We met January 2010 in a history class at The University of Alabama. We dated throughout college, but broke up spring 2012 for two years. We reconnected in May of 2014 right before Matthew was moving to Japan! He flew me out in September, came back and proposed. We got married a week after on January 31, 2015 in a courthouse with just our parents! It was the sweetest, stripped down, most intimate ceremony and so special! He deployed to Afghanistan a few weeks later, and we had a big (second) wedding September 26, 2015 before I moved and joined him in Japan. We lived there for three years and have currently been back in the states living in Chattanooga, TN for a year."

Matthew: "Freshman year Western Civ. She used me for notes and homework help. The arrangement worked so well she decided to marry me."

Four years into marriage with two kids-- is life what you thought it would look like? How is it what you expected or different?

Matthew: "Life has never been what I thought it would be. So far, the good Lord has thwarted every plan I had made up in my mind, and I couldn't be happier with that. My plans have come and gone (lifelong bachelor/grizzled mercenary was my plan right before Kristin and I got married), and I am so glad that none of them came to fruition. I could have never anticipated the gifts I have been given in my wife and children, and I thank God every day for them."


Kristin: "Yes and no. I always knew I wanted to be a wife and mother. There were times when I thought Matthew would be my husband and a season where I thought that was impossible. Matthew has and will always be the best earthly gift I’ve received from God. Our children come VERY close after. He is the perfect picture of grace and Christ’s redeeming love. We also said we wanted to wait to have children for five years after marriage, but one day Matthew looked at me and said he wanted a baby-- so that changed! We lost our first baby, and it broke our heart, but it solidified our desire to have lots of babies. I never thought I’d be driving a minivan, staying home with two kids 13 months apart right now, but I really wouldn’t have it any other way. (OBSESSED WITH MY MINIVAN YALL!) We’ve been across the world and back again, gone through a combat deployment, many mini deployments and time apart, lost a child, birthed two, career changes, back to school— and we have felt God’s hand through it all. I’m just really grateful that I am not the author of my story because even though there is hurt, grief, and ugliness in our story— the beauty we have experienced is far better than anything I could have imagined up for myself."

Is there any lesson you feel you are learning in this season of life? 

Matthew: "All the lessons. The most trying one is definitely patience. I have zen like patience now compared to pre-children me, and I still have a long way to go in anticipation of having a teenage daughter."


Kristin: "The beauty and blessing of authentic, faith driven community. We received really good advice from a couple from our church in Japan who we really looked to as mentors. They raised six incredible boys, lived all over the world, and it was an honor to learn from them in marriage, parenthood and faith. They told us that where ever you are-- immediately join a Bible believing church in your community and pour into it. That is the first thing we did. Knowing we wanted to attend a PCA church, we went to the one in our neighborhood (St. Elmo Presbyterian Church) and never looked back. It has blessed us tremendously through Bible studies, small group, current youth leaders, and being discipled by our pastor. We have felt SO loved on by our church community. 

In that same regard, a community of moms is VITAL. Being a mom of little ones is hard, and can feel lonely and isolating if you let it. Get out of your house. Find your people that you can do life with in PJs, with spit up on your shirt and three-day old make up. Those people that will encourage you through the four-month sleep regression, toddler tantrums/discipline and love your babies like their own. The ones that point you to Jesus when you feel weak. They come to your house and hold your newborn so you can shower and bring Chick-fil-a. They give you hand-me-downs from their kids! They don’t judge your choices in motherhood because we all know we are just doing the best we can. When husbands are out of town, they become your support, and you help each other get to nap times and bedtimes together. It REALLY takes a village, so seek out your village and USE IT!"

What does your family enjoy doing together?

Matthew: "Eating and taking walks. Also listening to Praise Baby (TM) on repeat."

Kristin: "Anything outside! We love going to Matthew’s family land (where these pictures were taken), going on walks/hikes, taking the kids to the playground, playing in our backyard or front porch. Honestly, as cheesy as it sounds, we truly just love intentional time together no matter where it is!"

What's advice you give to someone engaged and planning their wedding?

Matthew: "For the guy (I'll stay in my lane), say 'yes' to everything. Pick a few things you want in the wedding (keep it simple), so that you seem engaged, and don't take it personally when they get denied. Just roll with everything while constantly nodding your head North and South."

Kristin: "As much time you feel like you have to prepare for the 'wedding,' make sure you are also preparing for the marriage. A wedding is a day-- a marriage is a lifetime. Make sure you are establishing a firm foundation. Marriage isn’t and shouldn’t be built on the foundation of a beautiful wedding-- it should be founded on Jesus. It’s not wrong to want a special day to celebrate your love for one another, but try to remember what it is about. Seek Christ first in every season."

What's advice you'd give to newly married couples in their first year of marriage?
Kristin: "Say 'yes.' Don’t be afraid to jump out of your comfort zone. Those are the things that will strengthen you as a couple. Best thing I ever did was say yes to moving to Japan. Was it scary? Yes, absolutely. But it really strengthened our marriage. It helped us not baby step into marriage-- we jumped in full on and it has blessed us. Also, find your community. Nothing has enriched us more than being involved in a Bible teaching church. Seek wisdom from older couples who are actively pursuing each other and Jesus. Trials will come, you need support from people that will push you to each other and Jesus! We are currently going through  discipleship/counseling with our pastor studying Sonship together, and it has been the right kind of 'hurts so good' in a season of craziness with these littles!"

Matthew: "The wedding advice still applies. Only this time, it applies to the new house, dinner plans, basically everything. Happy wife = happy life."

Andy + Madeleine {wedding} :: Birmingham, Ala.

How did you two meet?

Madeleine: "We met at UAB hospital sometime in 2015 when he was a resident and I was a nurse. I don't remember the first time we met, but I do remember the first time he asked me out. We had both been taking care of a very sick patient and he sat in the patient's room with me all day and chatted with me. He asked me out at the end of the day as I was leaving work."

What are some things you and Andy enjoy doing together?

Madeleine: "We enjoy the pursuit of trying every restaurant and brewery in Birmingham, beating our friends during game nights, trying to find a time to both sit down to watch the latest show we've been binge watching, and listening to records chosen by DJ Andy."

How and when did Andy propose?

Madeleine: "Andy proposed on April 28 on a trip to Ireland. I suspected something was up when he refused to let his suitcase out of his sight when we on a bus on the way to our hotel. The actual proposal happened when we were driving the Ring of Kerry. Our guidebook pointed us to a vista that was supposed to have the most beautiful views in all of Ireland. Andy was very eager to go, but when we got there there were at least 3 tour busses, so he quickly suggested we get back in the car and keep driving. Finally we stopped at a vista that we could have all to ourselves and that's where he proposed."

Andy-- what's one thing you admire most about Madeleine?
Andy: "I admire Madeleine's optimism. She always puts a positive spin on things and is able to see the best in situations even when I'm not."

Madeleine-- what's one thing you admire most about Andy?
Madeleine: "I admire Andy's integrity. He always does the right thing, even when it's hard to do or unpleasant. This makes him such a good citizen and husband!"

What was each of yall's favorite part of the day?
Madeleine: "We both loved having all of our family and friends in the same room! During our ceremony, our pastor had us look out into the congregation and it was wonderful to see everyone we loved looking back at us. It is so reassuring to know we have the support of so many people as we begin our marriage!"

What’s next for you two?

Madeleine: “I am starting the doctor of nursing program at UAB in May and continuing to work as a nurse practitioner in the MICU at UAB. Andy will continue working as a hospitalist at St. Vincent’s.”

Vendors:
Flowers- Vera Flora
Hair and Makeup- Glow
Food- Savoie
Reception venue: Thomas Jefferson Tower
Church: First Presbyterian Church Birmingham
Dress- Ivory and White
Bridesmaids dresses- Joanna August/ Bella Bridesmaids
Tuxes- Men's Warehouse
Planner- Amanda Robbins
Cake- Barb's Cakes
Band- Accent
Venue- First Presbyterian Church/ Thomas Jefferson Tower Ballroom
Getting ready- The Tutwiler

Mark + Mary Helen {wedding} Tunnel Springs, Ala.

How did you two meet?
Mary Helen: "It is hard to narrow down exactly when Mark and I first met. We grew up around the corner from each other and attended the same school. Our friendship began when he asked me to a school dance. We’ve been best friends ever since."

What was each yall's favorite part of the day?
Mary Helen: "My favorite part of the day was definitely seeing Mark for the first time. He was so nervous and excited to see me. It was truly a moment I’ll never forget. A close second was dancing with all of our friends and family in a very special to both of us. I rarely left the dance floor the whole night!"

Mark: "Ha as expected, my favorite part of the day was seeing Mary Helen for the first time. I was truly speechless when I turned around to see her."

Mark-- what's one of the things you admire most about Mary Helen?
Mark: "I admire her love of family. Family always comes first in everything she does. Coming from a big family, that means a lot to me. I feel as though we’ve been a part of each other’s family for quite some time now."

Mary Helen-- what's one of the things you admire most about Mark?
Mary Helen: "I admire the way Mark treats others. He is a quick friend and is always willing to help someone out. He is genuinely kind, and I couldn’t respect that more."

How and when did Mark propose?
Mary Helen: "Mark proposed on August 3, 2018. He planned a birthday dinner for me at the Grand Hotel in Point Clear. He invited all of our friends down for a 'surprise birthday party' for me-- which several responded, 'We love Mary Helen, but you want us to fly to Alabama for a birthday party??' They quickly figured out what he had up his sleeve."

I of course was running late to meet him before dinner, so by the time we arrived to the Grand it was right at sunset. He walked me down to the water and handed me a birthday present, which had a tiny box in the bottom. When I pulled the box out of the bag, I quickly handed it back to him knowing what was happening. He got down on one knee, and I said, 'yes,' immediately. He put so much thought into the proposal and the whole weekend. We had the best time celebrating with everyone!!"

What are some things y'all like to do together? 
Mary Helen: "We love to cook and try new foods. We joke that eating is our hobby. We also spend a lot of time on the water here in Mobile. We have six nieces and nephews together that we enjoy watching grow up."

What's next for you two? 
Mary Helen: "We hope to fit in as much traveling as possible in the next few years! We stay busy with endless house projects and our rambunctious golden retriever, Honey."

Vendors:

Ceremony venue: First United Methodist of Monroeville 

Reception venue: Bride’s grandparents 

Hair: Brittany Rowland Whatley 

Makeup: Dodie Peltier 

Dress: Something New Bridal Boutique- Modern Trousseau 

Bridesmaids dresses: Bella Bridesmaids 

Rings: Hutcherson Jewelers 

Flowers: Julia Greer Fobes

Cake: Sharon’s Cakes

Catering: Gail + Melvin Foukal 

Rentals: Brendle Rentals

Invitations: Soiree Signatures 

Programs: Christi Meyer Dunn

Band: Music Garden, 2ndGroove 

DJ + Rebecca {wedding :: Birmingham, Ala.}

How did you two meet?
Rebecca: "We met at UAB hospital! Our friends set us up on a date. My nurse friend on my unit (Maggie) and DJ’s resident doctor friend (Chad) were talking about finding someone sweet for DJ to date, and I am so thankful I came to their mind! I had heard he wanted to ask me on a date on the unit, and I was eagerly waiting. I thought he was really kind, smooth, confident and handsome ;)."

DJ: "As Rebecca mentioned, two of our wonderful friends set us up. I was so nervous and awkward, but also so excited to meet Rebecca. We spoke for the first time in the ICU, and she kindly agreed to go to dinner with me. I will never forget her smile and sweet heart-- it was truly love at first sight! Rebecca has been such an incredible blessing from our Lord, and she is truly a dream come true! (She is also the most beautiful woman in the world!!)"

How and when did DJ propose?
Rebecca: "He proposed the same place my parents got engaged-- at my grandparents’ lake house! It was August 4th, 2018. We had plans to meet DJ’s friends for dinner, but my Dad called on the way asking us to run by the lake and pick up his phone he left (which he actually did leave there in case I used Find My Friends app). He said he had a bad migraine and would get my brothers to meet us at the place we were going for dinner. I knew the proposal was coming soon, but honestly blocked it out as an option that night with DJ's grandmother was in the hospital and my friends said they were working or out of town. DJ had a table set up, overlooking the lake, with a book with all his journal entries and pictures from our time together, as well as a Bible with our names on it, candles and the ring. His sisters and my sister were hiding and taking pictures and Christmas lights were hanging on the trees (in August!). It was magical! He got down on one knee. I was shaking and almost forgot to say 'yes' I was so overwhelmed. And afterwards, we had a surprise engagement party at my parents house with our family and friends! They did an incredible job!! It was such a wonderful day!"

DJ--what's one of the things you admire most about Rebecca?
DJ: "One of the things that struck me most about Rebecca is that she is truly the sweetest person I have ever met. And that word, 'sweet'  is exactly how I described her to all of my family and friends when we first started dating. Rebecca is so thoughtful, giving, caring, serving, and incredibly loving, and she is such a joy to be around! She is truly such an amazing blessing from our Lord, and I do not deserve her!"

Rebecca-- what's one of the things you admire most about DJ?
Rebecca: "I love how DJ loves. DJ truly exemplifies Christ’s forgiving, joyous and pursuing love every day since we met--not only to me, but I have noticed him share this love with everyone he comes into contact with-- whether that be a friend, coworker, family member, patient, or stranger. I love how encouraging, joyful, positive, and caring he is too! I do not deserve such a man and never imagined someone could surpass all dreams, prayers, and expectations."

What are some things y'all like to do together?
DJ: “We love spending every possible minute together! We love taking walks/hikes, cooking, spending time with our awesome family and friends, watching funny TV shows, going to Church and praying together, and just being close to one another!”

What was each yall's favorite part of the day?
DJ: "I loved marrying the sweetest woman in the world and entering into the covenant of marriage in the presence of God and so many of our family and friends. It was the best day!"


Rebecca: "I loved walking down the aisle, focusing on DJ, seeing his unconditional love for me all over his tear-stained face. What a beautiful undeserving image we had the privilege to symbolize! Us, Christians, walking to our Lord washed white as snow, purified of all sin. And the pursuer, Jesus, waiting eagerly at the end. It was crazy thinking this was the last time I was walking down the aisle 'til heaven. We are so undeserving of His Love!"

What's next for you two?
Rebecca: “DJ and I are currently unpacking our house in Cahaba Heights! We are falling more in love with each passing day, building our lives together as One. DJ is continuing his Hematology-Oncology fellowship for 2 more years at UAB, and hopes to be a cancer doctor in Birmingham. I plan to continue working as an ICU nurse, with the goal of starting CRNA school if the Lord wills... and maybe start a family :)”

Casey + Bekah {wedding :: Montgomery, Ala.}

How did you two meet?
Bekah: "We first met at the 5 a.m. crossfit class at CrossFit Opelika, and that place will always hold special memories for the both of us. I remember thinking that Casey was very handsome, but I also thought he was loud. It was the start of football season, and he walked into the gym yelling how excited he was."


Casey: "I remember thinking Bekah was very,very, very pretty, but there was no way a girl like that was ever going to date me.”

How and when did Casey propose?
Bekah: "This story is probably best told by him, but Casey proposed to me on the beach on my birthday. I have always wanted to get married in December, and I told Casey I did not want to have a long engagement. So, after the proposal, he told me he tried to propose at a time that would allow both of those to happen-- but I had no idea he was going to propose or even that he bought a ring! I was completely in the dark. I knew we would get married, but I had NO idea when that would be."

Casey: I wanted to propose somewhere that was special for us. Bekah’s family was already planning a beach trip in May, so I asked her family if I could highjacked the family vacation with my proposal. The beach is her very favorite place to be, so I thought what better place… and it will even be on her birthday (which she will never see coming.) After deciding on the when and where, I arranged for my family and some of our closest friends to be staying/hiding at a beach house down the road from her family. Bekah was already down at the beach, and I was coming in from a conference and meeting her there. I got into town earlier and scoped out the perfect place on the beach for the proposals (and the perfect hiding place for my brother to take pictures). They were all getting ready for her 'birthday dinner.' She knew they were having a birthday dinner for her that evening-- what she didn’t know was that it would double as an engagement dinner. Once I got to the house, I sat down for all of two minutes then asked her to go on a walk on the beach with me because my legs were stiff from driving all day. We walked out on to the beach, and I made it about 10 steps before I dropped to one knee so quickly the indention may still be there."

Bekah: "I had no idea what was going on because he walked, seriously, two steps and said, 'You know I want to spend the rest of my life with you, right?' Then, I looked over, and he was on one knee."

Casey: "After three 'Is this real?' and a few steps forward and backwards, she finally said, 'yes!' Afterwards, we walked back up to the house where our family and friends were waiting with a surprise engagement party."

Casey-- what's one of the things you admire most about Bekah?
Casey: "I admire her dedication to everything she sets her mind to. I admire the love and patience she continually shows to me. I admire her work ethic in getting her doctorate, and I admire her relationship with Christ."

Bekah--what's one of the things you admire most about Casey?
Bekah: "I admire how genuine and giving Casey is in everything he does. He loves and cares about others-- especially his family. He is always willing to help when there is a need. I admire how hard he works, and I’m so proud of what he has accomplished. I admire his love for Christ."

What are some things y'all like to do together?
Bekah: "We like to workout together. Of course, this is a major part of both our lives, and we are glad we get to enjoy it together. We like staying in and watching movies. We love going on road trips and spending time together in the car. We enjoy spending time with each of our families. We enjoy going to church together, and we’ve enjoyed getting involved and serving as a married couple. I’m slowly turning Casey into a regular beach goer-- which is my favorite thing to do."

What was each yall's favorite part of the day?
Casey: "I had a lot of moments during the day that meant a lot to me and that I will always remember, but the first look was hands down my favorite."

Bekah: "The day was everything and nothing like I expected. I loved being able to share those special moments with my mom and sister, along with my bridesmaids. Showing my dad my dress for the first time (well second time) but first for that day. Being able to spend time and share memories with our closest friends and family throughout the whole day and then talking and dancing with those at the reception. But, my favorite part of the day was seeing Casey at the end of the aisle and saying, 'I do.' At the end of the day, we both agreed that becoming husband and wife in the eyes of God is the best memory and gift we received that day."

What's next for you two?
Bekah: "Casey would tell you we are off to train for the Avengers. A little movie humor– he’s a movie buff, and now I’m his permanent tag along that ask a lot of questions. But… in reality, we are returning to Kentucky (our current home) and will be there for at least the next two years. I am currently working on my PhD in Exercise Physiology at the University of Kentucky, and Casey is the director of strength and conditioning at Kentucky Christian University. We hope to move back to Alabama or at least the South as soon as I am finished with school. We are loving married life!"

Michael + Sarah {engagement}

How did you two meet?
Michael: "I met Sarah just over two years ago at a friend’s house where we gathered to
watch the Super Bowl. I just arrived from coaching a baseball practice and knew everyone that
was coming was either married or in a relationship, but that’s when I noticed Sarah by herself. I
couldn’t help but look at her in a sneaky non-creepy way, but I was too nervous to say a whole
lot to her. The following day I asked my friend about his 'home add-on,' but only with the
intentions to ask about Sarah-- which he then gave me her phone number. That evening I asked
her out, and I remember the first time I saw Sarah pulling in to the Firebird’s restaurant. She
came flying in as if she owned the place or was practicing for the Talladega 500 race, but I was
also surprised she showed up after I jokingly told her, "My mom had just dropped me off, and
that I was waiting on her”. We hit it off from the very beginning and from that point on I knew
she was a God-send, and I enjoy every second I’m with her!"


Sarah: "We met about two years ago at a mutual friends Super Bowl party. I remember
as soon as Michael walked in the door immediately asking my friend who he was and wanting to
know all the scoop she could let me know about him. He was the tall, dark, handsome and quiet
type from first glance, which made me really intrigued, so I introduced myself, but we really
didn’t talk much that night. I knew I thought he was cute, but I didn’t have a clue that he was
interested in me until the next day I got a text from my friend’s husband telling me that Michael
wanted to get my phone number. He texted me one day after that, and we went out on our first
date that week. Then, we started seeing each other almost every day after that."

How and when did Michael propose? 
Michael: "I knew early on I was going to marry Sarah, and several ideas had crossed my mind. My original idea was to propose the Sunday before Thanksgiving when we all gathered at her family’s house, but time was not on my side. Afterwards, it was getting close to Christmas time, Sarah and I had planned to take Christmas pictures with our dog, Sasha, so we can send out Christmas cards. I knew right then my plans were to ask that important question. I reached out to Sarah’s friend, Kristin, whom took our pictures, and informed her of my plans, so we were on the same page. We began taking pictures in front of the town hall in Moss Preserve in Hoover, AL when I grabbed the ring and got down on one knee to asked her to marry me."

What are some things yall like to do together? 

Michael: "One of the biggest attractions about Sarah was her passion for baseball because her father is a head baseball coach in Montgomery, AL, and I’ve played my whole life. We enjoy watching and going to baseball games, trying out new restaurants, watching movies, going to the hunting camp, visiting her family and my soon-to-be niece, Mary Landers, and being spontaneous by going on trips which we went to Ellijay, GA last year."

Michael—describe Sarah in three words.
Michael: "Loving, sweet and angelic. I know no one is perfect, but in my eyes, that’s what Sarah is to me. I've never met a more loving, caring and selfless person in my life. She brings out the best in myself and others-- and even on my worse day, she brightens it up the second I see her. I’ve heard the expressions that most marriages are people whom marry their best friends, and I thought that’s not usually the case. However, I can vouch for that now because I love tackling life with her. I enjoy the lazy nights in and the chaotic weekends vacuuming Sasha’s hair all over the house. I thank the Lord everyday for putting her in my life. Everything happens on the Lord’s timing and happens for a reason. Every morning I wake up smiling knowing that she makes this world a better place, and I’m grateful and blessed beyond measures to soon call her my wife!"

Sarah—describe Michael in three words.
Sarah: "Caring, patient and funny. He has pursued me through our entire relationship, and he always shows and tells me how much he loves and cares for me. I am so blessed that the Lord put this amazing man that I have prayed for in my life. He truly is the first person I want to share my good and bad days with. His jokes and personality always put a smile on my face, and it reminds me to not take life so seriously. He is patient in my indecisiveness and how I have no sense of direction-- that part will only make sense to him because I can never decide on where I want to go eat. Early on in our relationship, we met my parents at the SEC baseball tournament, and he tried to walk me to my car in the rain, but I forgot where I parked, so he patiently helped me for almost an hour tp find my car. Then, there was the first date that he told me his mom dropped him off at the restaurant, and I had no idea he was kidding-- but I almost didn’t want to show up for our date. I could go on and on about how this man is so special to me in the way he makes me feel loved, cared for, secure and lets me be me despite all my shortcomings and flaws. I can't wait until I get to marry my best friend that makes me a better person.”

Patrick + Claire {engagement} :: Pike Road, Ala.

How did you two meet?

Claire: “Patrick and I met the summer of 2014 when I interned with the youth group at First Baptist Church Montgomery. I worked under his dad, who was then the associate minister of music, and I remember him telling me he had a son my age. We ended up spending time together at youth camp that summer, and that's where our friendship really began. We kept up some after that summer, but life happens and we went on doing our own thing. It was 2017 when things changed for both of us. I came home from Tennessee, where I was living at the time, for a weekend to help lead a group for Disciple Now at First Baptist. Patrick was also a leader that weekend. Let's just say, seeing him for the first time in a long time brought back lots of butterflies. I ended up moving back to Montgomery a few months later, and he asked me on a date. I don't think a day has gone by since then that we haven't spent time together. I never would have thought that a small summer job would lead me to meeting my future husband!”

Patrick: “Claire and I met at First Baptist Montgomery while she was a youth intern during the summer of 2014. My dad had recently become the associate minister of music at First Baptist, and I had just moved to Montgomery to transfer from Auburn to AUM. Claire and I became good friends after spending some time together at youth camp that summer. We always knew how to make each other laugh, and that's how I knew we would be good friends. Fast forward three years--I saw her at Disciple Now where we were both leaders and found out she was moving back to Montgomery from Nashville that spring. After catching up that weekend and in the weeks that followed, I realized I wanted to pursue a serious relationship with her.”

How and when did Patrick propose?

Claire: "Patrick proposed on October 27, 2018. One of my most cherished places is the little town where my daddy grew up. My grandfather has some land there, and Pat and I love to go down there with my family and ride through the woods, sit around a bonfire, fish (yes, I fish with him), or really anything that let's us enjoy the beautiful scenery. That day wasn't different from any other times we had been at the farm. My siblings were home from college for fall break, and my mom said she wanted us all to go down there and spend time together. Patrick's parents came, but that wasn't out of the ordinary either. We even brought some of our friends, but I accidentally orchestrated that myself. We enjoyed the day with the people we loved, and when we were all sitting around a bonfire, right before the sun was setting, Patrick told me he wanted to take a walk. I immediately froze and asked him why, but he said he just wanted to talk about his job, so I went along. We went to this little bench that looks over the water and sat down, but I realized he wasn't really saying anything that made sense. That's when I got suspicious. We stood up after awhile to walk back and he grabbed my hand, said a bunch of sweet things that I didn't really hear, and got on his knee to ask me to marry him. The special part was that we got to celebrate with both of our families and some of our closest friends. I will never forget that day!"

Patrick: "On October 22, 2018, I told my parents I was going to buy a ring for Claire. We had been dating nearly a year and a half and through prayer, I knew that God had revealed to me that she would be my wife. I bought a ring the next day and went to ask for her dad's blessing. I planned the whole thing out with her parents and mine, as well as my best friend, Garrett, and his wife, Krista. Claire obviously knew none of this, and she asked Garrett and Krista if they wanted to go down to her family's farm in the town that her dad grew up in. I knew the perfect spot to ask her--next to a bench her grandfather had had made, looking out at the lake. We spent the day with our families and friends and when the sun began to set, I asked her to go on a walk. Once we got to the spot, I dropped to one knee and asked her to marry me. She said yes and we sat on the bench and prayed together before celebrating with our families and friends."

What are some things you two enjoy doing together?

Claire: "We like to go hiking but also to cozy up and watch movies. We love watching Friends or The Office and football and basketball. We like spending time with our family and friends and our new nephew. We go to church together each week and we love to pray together. We love singing really loud in the car, especially all of the old patriotic songs. We love to just be together and learn more about each other than we knew the day before."

Claire-- describe Patrick in three words.

Claire: "Patrick is kind-hearted, selfless and trustworthy."

Patrick-- describe Claire in three words.

Patrick: "Claire is beautiful, supportive and irreplaceable."

Hunter + Lorin {engagement :: Huntsville, Ala.}

How did you two meet?
Lorin: "Hunter and I first met when we were in sixth grade at Huntsville Middle School. I used to think Hunter was soooo cute with his long bowl cut and huge cow lick. Shortly after meeting, we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and then we attended our first middle school spring dance together. Our sixth grade fling only lasted a few months, and then we remained friends throughout middle and high school. For a few years after high school, we lost touch and would occasionally run into each other hanging out with mutual friends when Hunter would come home on breaks from school. My son, Grayson and I moved into a new house around the same time Hunter moved back to Huntsville from chiropractic school. We ended up being next-door neighbors. Like, right next door. For the first few weeks of being neighbors, Hunter, Grayson and I spent every night sitting out back talking and hanging out. Our dogs even became best friends! It didn't take long before I had fallen in love with my neighbor." 

Hunter:  "I came home on break from school and saw Lorin at a mutual friend's party. I hadn't seen Lorin in about five years or more, and I remember thinking: 'My gosh! She is so hot! I need to rekindle this middle school dream.' We ended up keeping in touch throughout the last couple of years of school. After moving back to Huntsville, we ended up being next-door neighbors and have been together ever since."

How and when did Hunter propose?
Lorin: "Hunter proposed on the Fourh of July. We had no plans for the holiday and were just going to 'go with the flow.' (Hunter's idea) I am the type of person that needs to have a plan and know exactly what we are going to do, but I agreed to relax and enjoy the day. We spent the day at Hunter's parents' house hanging out by the pool with our friends, Alex and Brooke. Apparently throughout the day, Hunter and Alex had been working on a plan for all of us to go watch a firework show from one of their office building rooftops. I had no idea what was going on and actually was panicking that we were going to miss the fireworks! Once we were there, the view on the rooftop was amazing! We were overlooking the Space & Rocket Center and next thing I know, Hunter was down on one knee! I had absolutely no idea! It was such a surprise and so special. I am so glad that we had our friends there to share that special moment with us."

What are some things y'all like to do together?
Lorin: "Everything. We really do love doing pretty much anything together. Hunter and I just enjoy laughing, joking around and having a good time together! We both love summertime, the outdoors and anything that involves being on the water-- so really enjoy taking the boat out on the lake, being at the beach or just hanging out by the pool. Hunter has a two-year-old Lab and I have a two-year-old GSP/Weimaraner who are best friends! We love taking them to swim and just letting them run around together. Hunter has SO MANY hobbies. He loves golfing, fishing, hunting, so I often tag along with him. Overall, we just love having fun!"

Lorin-- describe Hunter in three words:

Funny-- this is the first word that comes to my mind when describing Hunter because it is probably one of the qualities I love most about him. Hunter makes me laugh hysterically on a daily basis. There is never a dull moment at home with him...EVER. He makes life fun, and I can't wait to spend forever laughing with him every day. 

Caring-- this is one of the qualities that made me fall in love with Hunter. He has such a big heart! He is always willing to help anyone and everyone and genuinely cares about the feelings of others. He is the greatest partner and the most amazing step-dad to Grayson. From taking Grayson hunting, going to baseball and basketball games, or just playing video games together-- it makes my heart so happy to see how much Hunter cares and loves. Grayson and I are so blessed to have him!

Positive-- Hunter is a positive person in many different ways. He is so laid-back, caring and funny that he brings such a positive energy every where he goes, which is one of the many things I love about him. Hunter also has such a positive outlook on life. No matter how crazy and hectic a situation may be, Hunter is always so optimistic. 

Hunter-- describe Lorin in three words.

Firecracker-- Lorin is hot like a firecracker. She has always been a very strong minded woman who has never been afraid to speak her mind. She is fearless and forthright. She is loud and outspoken, and always a joy to be around. She is my little firecracker.

Thoughtful-- anyone who knows Lorin, knows that she wears her heart on her sleeve. She is considerate, attentive and always in some way looking out for others. She is very in-tune with her emotions and believe me-- she is not scared to shed a few tears. 

Mother-- above all, Lorin is a mother. She is caring, loving and supportive. She will be at every sporting event or after school activity even if it means missing a little sleep. She cares more about supporting and caring for us as a family than she does for her own self. 

Austin + Jacee {wedding} :: Selma. Ala.

How did you two meet?

Jacee: "Austin and I initially met this side of a turn-row in the heart of the Mississippi Delta under the smoldering heat of the sun. We were in Leland, MS for a field day surrounded by soybeans, corn and cotton. We shared lunch and a conversation under a big, white tent. After this day, I wouldn’t get to visit with Austin again until a year later.

Fast forward to a Young Farmers meeting in the middle of nowhere, Alabama. I am the speaker for the evening at a camp house with mostly men. Working and being involved in agriculture, this is something I have become used to on a Thursday night. Earlier in the week, one of my customers took me to Austin’s family farm where I met with his brother in the hayfield to visit their cattle operation. My customer had told me about Austin, and how he had just graduated from Auburn and was back on the farm. He also put in a good word about him. At the meeting, I was hoping Austin would show. I remembered how enjoyable he was to be around and the thought provoking conversations we had a year ago in the Delta. As we were getting ready to eat our burgers and start the program, Austin walked into the meeting last minute.

After the meeting, it was late and I still had quite the drive to make home. Starting down highway 80, my phone rang and the number that showed up was not recognized. Typically, I let these numbers go to voicemail, but decided to answer. Low and behold, it was Austin, calling to check on me and make sure I was getting home okay. During our conversation, he politely asked me to spend time with him and some of his family that weekend.

Next thing you know we are spending more and more time together. A few weeks after we had started spending time, Austin and I attended a small-town rodeo. We watched the young cowboys try their hand at calf roping from the tailgate of a truck. Afterward, we danced to a live band and had a great time. The next day, Austin asked me to be his girlfriend. I knew the connection and relationship Austin and I had was special. He is exactly who I’ve been praying for in a partner. The first time I met Austin, I knew he was a genuine and purposeful person. I was captivated by our conversations and his politeness toward me. His character, personality and attitude helped me realize what qualities are important in a future spouse and life partner.”

How and when did Austin propose?

Jacee: "Austin asked me to marry him on March 10, 2018. He asked under my favorite Spanish moss tree in the middle of a pasture on the farm.

For months, Austin had told me to be prepared for his brother’s surprise birthday the day he asked. He had it lined up where I was going to help his sister-in-law with their new baby girl, Ellis, while she prepared for the party. I had the Alabama State Cattlemen’s convention this day, as well. Driving to the farm from the convention, it rained on me the entire way. Once I got to the farm, it was cool and calm and the rain had stopped. I arrived and got dressed to go to his brother’s surprise party. On our way, he asked if I minded going to look at hayfields they had sprayed earlier in the week with a product I manage. I travel most of the time for my job, so this request did not seem out of the ordinary. However, I didn’t want to be late to help with the baby, but he insisted we had a little time.

As we drove through the pastures to the hayfields, he was asking me recommendations on when to spray for weed control and which products to use. Then, he stopped the truck and asked me to get out and look at a typical 'prairie' weed- Cherokee Rose. This species is commonly found throughout the Blackbelt or Prairie region of Alabama, and I think it is the toughest weed producers are faced with! To my pleasant surprise, we weren’t going to look at that species of rose.

We walked up to the big tree covered in Spanish moss and the trunk was covered in a beautiful floral display. Before Austin got down on one knee, he described me using the letters of the name, read the sweetest letter he wrote to me, and we had the most heartfelt conversation. He pulled the ring out of his cowboy boot and the rest in history! I have never felt more overcome by peace and the presence of God until this day. Austin’s brother, sister-in-law and lifelong friend were hiding out in the pasture capturing the candidness of the proposal and we are fortunate to have most of it on camera!

After the proposal, we called family and close friends to share the news. Then, Austin had another surprise in the form of an after proposal party with some of our friends and family! We are truly surrounded by such a great support system who show us love, kindness and Godly direction.”

Jacee--what's one of the things you admire most about Austin?

Jacee: "There are many things I admire about Austin-- it’s hard to pick just one! Overall, I admire Austin for his work ethic, purposeful attitude and sincere thoughtfulness toward others. Austin gets up every morning with a driven spirit that lingers through the day. He will do what is expected of him and then some-- he goes the extra mile. Austin keeps his word and is someone you can count on. He doesn’t just say something to speak-- he truly seeks to listen to understand. You can bet what comes out of his mouth has a purpose. He is the type of person that would do anything for anyone and genuinely cares about people. I am thankful God put him in my life and we get to take on this life as husband and wife!"

Austin-- what's one of the things you admire most about Jacee?

Austin: "There are many things I admire about Jacee to pick just one. I would say Jacee’s determination. She is very motivated. Which can be a difficult thing for many people. She makes it seem easy."

What was each yall's favorite part of the day?

Austin: "Our day as whole was very special. One of my favorite parts was saying our vows in the presence of the Lord and our family and friends."

Jacee: "The whole day couldn’t have been more perfect. It’s hard to pick just one thing out of the day as my favorite part. One of the most special parts for both of us was not only saying our vows under the presence of God, but also in the church we were both baptized in. I have never felt so overwhelmed by the presence of God until this day. His grace over poured on us, literally, as it rained that morning and tornadoes that afternoon. Despite the forecast, there was no worry or concern of the conditions in my mind. It actually turned out nice and sunny that afternoon, and it was 75 degrees that evening for our outdoor tent reception in December! I think that is a perfect example of no matter the circumstances in life, God’s plan for each of our lives will prevail. There is no need to worry because He has it all worked out. I am so grateful for His plan for us! Another favorite part of our day that exemplified God’s glory, was when all of our family and friends joined us to sing a couple verses of “How Great Thou Art” before we said our vows. The worship was moving for both of us to have so many special people in our lives share such a sacred moment with us."

What are some things you two like to do together?

Jacee: "We like to do just about anything together, but here are some of our favorites: check the pivots in the corn and soybean fields, ride through the cows, watch John Wayne westerns, fish for bass and hunt turkeys and deer."

What's next for you two?

Jacee: "We live on a farm in west Alabama (the prairie) and raise crops and cattle. Specifically, we grow corn and soybeans, and Jacee sells agriculture products. We are excited to continue life as one with God leading our life!"

Vendors:
Ceremony: First Baptist Church of Selma, AL
Reception venue: Sturdivant Hall
Florals + planning: Shabby and Chic Events
Videographer: 1717 Wedding Cinema
Hair + makeup: Emily Summerville and Andi Watson
Bride’s dress: Heidi El NoraVeil: Sara Gabriel
Bridesmaid dresses: Bella Bridesmaids
Bridesmaid robes: PJ Harlow
Tux: Mr. Burch Mountain Brook
Jewelry: Steed’s Jewelry
Cakes: Amanda Kiser Cakes
Groom’s cookies: CookieFix
Catering: CafeIZ or EverythingIZ
Invitations: Brooke Lindsey
Napkin and Koozie artwork: Lane Ross Designs
Band: Music Garden, Wes Loper Band
Furniture: PropHouse
Lighting + tent: Encore Designs

Cody + Laura Jean {The journey to Emmy Lou}

How did you two meet and when did y'all get married?

Laura Jean: "We met in fourth period English class in eleventh grade. He was the new guy at our highschool. We ended up dating towards the end of our senior year and married a little over four years later!"

Did you have "plans" for you and Cody once y'all got married? How has that lined up with your reality now?

Laura Jean: "OH YES! We had lots of plans. I was planning to be a youth minister in Memphis, TN. Cody wanted to do something along the lines of accounting, but wasn't sure what that looked like at the time. I ended up not getting the job in Memphis, and Cody ended up with a desk job doing audits and renewals. Needless to say, after a lot of 'no's' we just dove into what we could get and made side plans of our own. When it comes to me and Cody, the side plans just keep brewing. Never did we think we would run a sidewalk coffee cart or renovate houses or even still live in Montgomery. Honestly we are not doing anything that we thought we would be doing. I seriously cannot make up some of the crazy stuff we have done, and the opportunities we have encountered that all kind of grew out of a place of not getting what we hoped for. God is interesting like that."

Tell us about your journey to begin having children.

Laura Jean: "I think having children was one of those things that I just thought, 'Oh, when we are ready, it'll just happen.' That is not our story. I am very open and willing to share that I have stage 3 endometriosis. Throughout college, I dealt with unbelievable pain that just was never explained. We were told after my first surgery (after they discovered my case) that we needed to have children ASAP. And we just... well— couldn't. The pain returned, and the same story: surgery, doctors said, 'have babies' and we, again— couldn't. 

Through a long story and series of events, we ended up at a different practice outside of the city. This doctor was able to hand more attention to my case and find better solutions to what I was dealing with so that I could see that there was hope to have children.

But honestly, I know it was the Lord. 

My doctor in town looked at my records when I was 14 weeks pregnant and said, 'This is truly a miracle that you have conceived. Praise God that this has happened." I know we talked to good people who prayed. We believed and hoped and cried and got offended by people— we did all the steps that so many walk through.

...But there is nothing our God cannot do, and I know this baby is a product of who Jesus is and the faith of so many who believed FOR us to have a baby.”

What's a piece of advice you'd give couples who are desiring to have children?

Laura Jean: "Something Cody and I used to say to each other was, 'Someone else's story is not mine, but my story is GOOD.' It was a way for us to stay focused on what we needed to pray for and not hear terrible stories and doubt what God was able to do. It was a way to not sink into self-pity when someone, 'accidentally got pregnant and we were told, 'This might not happen for you.'

More than anything, give yourself some grace. Give yourself patience and know that there is so much to lean into and pour your life into while you wait. The Lord is in the beginning, the journey and the final result. Try to just find the Lord in every step. He is there and good and showing off every single day."

What's one thing you are most looking forward to once Emmy Lou arrives?

Cody: "It's exciting being able to know that you are about to raise a human and have a tremendous impact on the way she see things— and also how she will help us see things. I can't wait for all the change and learning how to adapt with her in our lives. 

I cannot wait just to meet this little person— to see her face and think of how many people prayed her here. I can't wait to see what traits she inherits from us and how she makes the world brighter. I know Jesus knows her so well already  and I am excited to know her too."

Zane + Kasey {engagement}

How did you two meet?

Kasey: "We meet online after encouragement from close friends to join a dating app. The first time I met Zane, based off our conversation, I could tell he really enjoyed serving others, was very intelligent and could hold a great conversation with inquiring questions."

Zane: "On our first date, I remember thinking that Kasey was a great conversationalist, and that I definitely wanted to spend more time with her."

How did Zane propose?

Kasey: "Zane proposed on September 15, 2018. Earlier in the week, he has asked to take me on a date and said that we were going somewhere nice. He told me he'd pick me up Saturday evening. We went to downtown Montgomery where we spent many coffee dates after work walking from Dexter Avenue to the River Front amphitheater. Once downtown, he asked if we could go for a walk as we had some time before our reservation at Central. We walked to an overlook of the river where he proposed."

What are some things you two enjoy doing together?

Kasey: "We enjoy drinking a good cup of coffee, listening to and discussing podcasts, and finding the best tacos in town."

Zane— what’s one thing you admire most about Kasey?

Zane: "The thing I admire most about Kasey is how much she cares about people-- not just her friends and family, but each new person she meets. She genuinely wants to get to know everyone, learn about thier life and struggles, then help them however she can. Kasey has an excellent memory for every detail of a conversation because she really does care about each person she talks with."

Kasey— what’s one thing you admire most about Zane?

Kasey: "There are many things to admire about Zane. However, some of his most admirable qualities are his patience, how hard working he is and how much he enjoys serving others. He is also always learning something. Zane is very patient with me and a great listener at all times-- always being slow to speak and quick to listen. Zane is an extremely hard working along with how well he serves me and others daily. Zane is always learning and sharing with me so that I can learn with him. As Zane’s fiancé and future wife, I know that he will continue to bless me with these qualities with his patience, servanthood and continuing to teach me all that he’s learning."

Austin + Shelby {engagement}

How did you two meet?

Austin: “I met Shelby on the morning of October 4, 2014. That was the day Auburn played LSU at home our freshman year, and Shelby was my date for the game. I had been set up with her earlier in the week by Cailyn Sandoval (she was Cailyn Levant then, but has since married her longtime boyfriend and my best friend, John Sandoval). At that time, John and I were still pledges at our fraternity and had weekly swaps with different sororities on campus. It just so happens that the week before the LSU game, we had a swap with Chi Omega, which was Shelby and Cailyn’s sorority. Shelby and I did not meet each other then, but she enjoyed the swap so much that when she found out Cailyn was dating John, she told Cailyn that if any of his friends needed a date to anything to let her know. Coincidentally, that week I found myself in the extremely rare situation of not having a date. In my shock, I asked Cailyn if she could set me up with any of her friends, and luckily, she sent me Shelby’s phone number. That Saturday morning, a group of us drove to pick up our dates, and we pulled into Shelby’s apartment complex. Shelby walked out of her door, and I remember having to scrape my jaw off the asphalt of the parking lot to pull out my smooth line of ,“Hellllooooo,” and try my best not to be awkward as I gave her my best casual side hug. We had an awesome time tailgating and cheering Auburn on against LSU. It is always more fun when Auburn runs over the other team like we did to LSU that day. After the game, my friend Connor Koch and I were walking Shelby and his date home. I was actually hoping that when we got back to Shelby’s apartment we could keep hanging out because I just was not quite ready for our date to be over yet. She apparently had different plans though because as soon as we got to the door she thanked me for everything and walked inside and locked the door. Luckily, I have no shame and she mentioned during the day that we had the same chemistry professor and that she was doing well in the class, so I was able to trick her into ‘tutoring’ me in chemistry that semester, and the rest is history.”

Shelby: “Austin and I met in October of our freshman year at Auburn. My sorority, Chi Omega, had a swap at his fraternity and it was a blast! Though I did not meet Austin that day, one of my sorority sisters told us that she was dating a Theta Chi and that she would set us up on a gameday date. I gave her my number and a few days later, Austin texted me asking me to the Auburn/LSU game. When Austin picked me up from my apartment and we met for the first time, my first thought what a gentleman he was! He opened all my doors and was so sweet, hilarious and polite the entire day. He was such a gentleman and gave me his coat during the game and bought me drinks from the concession stand without me asking. We laughed, talked and cheered on The Tigers the entire night, and I realized how much we both LOVE Auburn football! Auburn ended up winning the game 41-7! Austin and I hung out the next few months and started dating officially in December-- and the rest was history! Auburn had a big win that day, but it was nothing compared to what I gained meeting Austin!”

How and when did Austin propose?

Austin: “I proposed on Star Wars day, May the Fourth, 2018. I had been sneaking around Shelby since November looking at rings and talking to her family. It was particularly difficult since we lived in the same apartment complex. There were times where I would tell her I was taking a nap and would be sneaking around in the parking lot when she would walk out of her apartment, so I would have to find something to hide behind until she left. As smart as Shelby is though, she was completely oblivious to everything. One time, I even accidentally pulled up a picture of a diamond ring on my phone when she was looking at it with me, and she didn’t even notice. I bought the ring right after Spring Break, which just so happens to be the week that I told her I wouldn’t be able to propose for at least another year. I felt bad for lying, but I knew she would appreciate it later. The week leading up to May 4 was finals week for me, and that weekend was graduation for most of our friends. I told her since I would not be able to hang out that week that we should go to dinner Friday night while our friends were with their families for graduation dinners. She thought that was a great idea, so on Friday we got ready to go eat and started driving to the spot I had picked out on Lake Martin. When she asked where we were going, I told her that everywhere in Auburn was booked up because of graduation and that I thought it would be nice to do a picnic on the lake. She bought it hook, line and sinker. We drove for the longest 45 minutes of my life to a park at Lake Martin. My mom and Shelby and mine’s best friends had been at that park for a couple hours beforehand setting up everything just like I had asked them to. When we pulled into the park, it was lined with mason jar candles leading to a table that had pictures of us, a letter to Shelby, a Bible, and a framed piece of paper that said, ‘Yes,’ from when she agreed to be my girlfriend freshman year. As I put the car in park, Shelby and I looked at each other, and she exhaled a long breath as I suppose why we were there was starting to hit her. We walked to the table, and I told her all the things that I had been rehearsing in my shower for weeks. I got down on a knee and pulled the ring out just like I had practiced. Shelby said, ‘yes’ several times and her left hand shot out faster than any human should be capable of. Her sister, Lauren, and best friends, Cailyn and Rachel, came out from various hiding spots after taking pictures and congratulated us. After taking more pictures, we drove a few houses down from the park to my Aunt Laura and Uncle Greg’s lake house where our family and friends were waiting to celebrate with us. We had Taco Mama catered because Mexican is Shelby’s favorite meal. The best part is that Shelby is so loved that we actually could not even fit everyone into the lake house and had to have another party in Auburn later that night for even more of our friends. In all the excitement, Shelby never actually ate anything though, so after it was all done, she and I went to Sonic to get her some tater tots. It was such a great time, and Shelby and I will always look back and talk about how great that night was.”

Shelby: “Austin proposed on May 4, 2018 at Lake Martin. As our relationship progressed through college, I knew that I could see myself marrying Austin and knew that he would make an incredible husband one day. In the Spring of 2018, Austin and I had a conversation about marriage and, though he confirmed that it was the next step for us, he told me that we would have to wait a year because of his grad school. Little did I know, Austin was already looking at rings!! A few months later, Austin told me that we should plan a date the Friday of Auburn’s graduation weekend. This wasn’t unusual for him at all. With pharmacy school and being college students in general, when we have time to go on a nice date together, Austin typically plans it ahead of time and keeps it a surprise from me. We spent most of the day together hanging out in Auburn, and when Austin came to pick me up for our date, he told me we were going to the lake to have a picnic because all of the restaurants were booked for graduation! However, when we got to the lake, we didn’t pull into his family’s lake house like I expected, but a small park with mason jars lining a walkway to the spot that he proposed! I was in such shock that I barely remember what he said at the time, but he knew that would happen, so he wrote me a letter with everything that he had rehearsed to say in it! Asking me to marry him was the easiest question I have ever had to answer! After I said yes, and got the most beautiful ring in the WORLD, my sister and two best friends came out from taking pictures to congratulate us! After, he had all of our family and friends come to the lake to celebrate with my favorite meal and even more friends waiting on us at my apartment back at Auburn! It was a day of pure joy and I could not be more thankful or more excited to be his wife! “

What are some things you two enjoy doing together?

Shelby: “We love to dance together. We love weddings and formals because it is just hours of dancing. We love cooking together. We both really like to travel. We love Auburn football. We love the beach and lake. We love watching movies and The Office. We love our friends and anytime that we get to spend with them!”

Austin—describe Shelby in three words.

“Godly– Above everything else, Shelby loves God. She is very involved in our church, and she loves people like Jesus does. She always points me back to God, and there is no better word to describe her.

Passionate– Anyone that knows Shelby knows that when she is in, she is all in. Whether it is her faith, becoming a pharmacist, or kettlebell class, Shelby will put everything she has into it.

Efficient– I have to include this one because this is always what Shelby says is the one word that describes her best. She always gives me a hard time because I move pretty slowly unless there’s a good reason to speed up. From the moment Shelby wakes up, she is productive and getting stuff done and done quickly. It is something I really do respect about her.”

Shelby—describe Austin in three words.

“Joyful– Austin is the happiest person I have ever met! He is always laughing and joking around and always has a positive perspective in any situation. Even when life gets hard, Austin is always the bright side to my day because he finds the good in every situation and every person. 

Constant– Austin is constant in so many different ways! He is so reliable, and I know that I can always count on him. Whether it is running over to my apartment to kill a bug (it happens, a lot) or knowing that he can always make me laugh, he is 100% himself all the time. Most importantly though, he is constant in showing me the love our Heavenly Father has for us and leads me in that truth daily. 

Servant-hearted– This by far describes Austin more than any other word. He amazes me the way that he not only loves serving others, but is ALWAYS looking for opportunities to serve me, his friends, his family or anyone! He does so joyfully and works so hard to help others.”

Lance + Betsy {wedding} Scottsboro, Ala.

How did you two meet?
Betsy: "Lance and I knew of each other all through high school, but he was at Grissom High, and I was at Huntsville High! For college, I went to The University of Alabama and he went to Auburn University. (Opposites attract!!) It wasn't until my sophomore year I decided to go to Auburn for the Iron Bowl weekend. (Which I told myself I WOULD NEVER DO! Ha!) but God's plan was greater than my own and had me go this one time. (Thankful I did!) Through mutual friends telling me Lance wanted to meet me and had a crush on me, I officially met Lance at the Iron Bowl game in 2013. His roommate was dating my sorority sister, and God decided this would be a perfect time for us to meet. I remember thinking Lance was so selfless, kind, helpful cute and funny. He had me laughing as soon as he introduced himself to me. After the Iron Bowl, it was soon Christmas break for the both of us, so we were both in our hometown Huntsville. We began going on dates and the rest is history :) Little did I know going to the town I said I would never go to I would end up meeting my future husband!! God's timing is perfect, and His plan is so much better than our own!! p.s. Alabama lost that game in the last second, and instead of Lance being a rude Auburn fan he went out of his way to make sure I wasn't upset about the loss. Although Alabama lost, I definitely won by meeting him!!"

How and when did Lance propose?
Betsy: "Lance and I love going on adventures and being spontaneous! If the sun is out so are we, and we are more than likely riding around listening to country music in the Jeep! It was a warm Saturday in October and we had plans to go watch the Alabama/TN game at Mellow Mushroom! During halftime, we decided to ride around in the Jeep. As we were riding, Lance slowed down in front of this hiking trail that he took me on right when we first started dating. He looked at me and asked, 'Remember one of our first dates up there?' (This is when I knew something was up) I said, 'Yes, it was fun!' He said, 'Want to go hiking up there again? I said, 'Sure, but I'm in sandals'... Long story short, he talked me into it and we got to hiking!! Halfway up the mountain, I stubbed my toe and it began to bleed I was like, 'Okay Lance, let's turn around,' and he said, 'You're fine the view will be worth it and we're almost there' -- it was then I definitely knew something was up!!!

When we got to the top of the mountain the view was gorgeous it overlooked the valley in Huntsville, and we sat down and began talking. His voice was shaking, and he said he was going to get a rock to throw off the mountain. This point I knew (!!!!!!) so I stood up turned around and he had a picture of my Gmom! I immediately began to cry. He took very good care of Gmom for the last couple years she was alive and she always told me, 'You better marry that boy.' He grabbed my hands and began to tell me the sweetest things about me and our relationship and our future. Next thing you know, he was on one knee!!!! I didn't even look at the ring and fell into his arms and gave him a bear hug which felt like I never let go!!! He even had a family friend in the power lines taking pictures the entire time!! After celebrating at the top of the mountain, we walked back down!!


At the bottom of the mountain was my family and some of my best friends who traveled from South Carolina, Birmingham and Montgomery just for this!! I began to cry when I saw all them!!
The surprises were still not over with! He said he had one more thing planned: we got in the Jeep and drove down to the Lumberyard restaurant where our families and more of our friends were!!! We celebrated, ate good food and enjoyed everyone's company! October 21, 2017 was a magical day and one I will never forget!! p.s. The ring he had completely customized with the diamonds on the side were from my mom's wedding band!! Lance Wallace did so good!!"

What are some things y’all like to do together? 
Betsy: "Lance and I love doing anything outside!! We are huge lake and beach people! We also love riding around in the jeep, hiking, boating swimming, grilling (we love to cook!). We also love live music, so if we find out there's a country concert in town we will definitely be there!! Lastly,  we just got a lab puppy so we enjoy taking him places and playing with him!"

Lance— what’s one thing you admire most about Betsy? 
Lance: "That’s a hard question because I love everything about Betsy! I would have to say the one thing I admire most about Betsy is her heart. She is so giving and loves everyone equally. If anyone is having a hard time, you can always depend on Betsy to show them love and compassion."

Betsy-- what's one thing you admire most about Lance?
Betsy: "There are so many things I admire about Lance to pick just one is hard!! I guess I have to say I admire how driven/hardworking Lance is in a selfless way. If he puts his mind to something he will do it-- for anyone. He is always willing to go out of his way to help someone out and fix whatever is the issue! He works hard at all he does and will do anything for anyone, and I admire that about him so much."

What was each of yall's favorite parts of the day?
Betsy: "The whole day was my favorite it’s hard to pick one moment!! Definitely walking down the aisle to see Lance (we didn’t do a first look, so this moment was so special for us) but honestly I think out of the entire day my most favorite part of had to have been Lance and mine's first dance. It was right at sunset which God painted so beautiful that night. We chose the song Best of My Love because it was a fun upbeat song that described us! We didn’t rehearse our dance because we wanted to be in the moment and it went exactly how we wanted! We had our closest friends bridesmaids and groomsmen standing right beside us and our family and friends above us and it was so much fun! I felt like I was on cloud nine dancing and couldn’t stop smiling!!! It hit me at this point that Lance was my husband, and God blessed us with the most beautiful night!"

Lance: "The day was a dream, so it’s hard just picking one moment! It’s rare that I don’t see Betsy, so it would have to be seeing here for the first time walking down the aisle. I couldn’t stop smiling-- she was the most beautiful bride!"

What’s next for you two?
Lance: "Once we return from our honeymoon in St. Lucia, we will continue life in Huntsville, AL-- our hometown. I work as an engineer, and Betsy works as a pharmaceutical sales rep and child life specialist for grief support groups. Betsy will move in to our home in 5 points with our white lab puppy Walter Wallace. We will continue to work hard, have fun, serve God and love each other! We’re so excited to begin life as husband and wife!"

Vendors:
Venue: Gorhams Bluff
Flowers: In Bloom--Mark Kimbrough and Ron Cooper 
Beauty: Emily Summerville 
Bride's dress: Village Bridal 
Bridesmaids: (PJ's) - PJharlow / (dresses): Kennedy Blue
Videographer: Southern Wedding Films (Colby)
Tux: Thrashers Clothing
Catering: Bubbas Catering
Band: Lisa and the Elusion

Andy + Madeleine {engagement} :: Birmingham, Ala.

How did you two meet?

Madeleine: “We met at UAB Hospital sometime in 2015 when he was a resident and I was a nurse. I don't remember the first time we met, but I do remember the first time he asked me out. We had both been taking care of a very sick patient, and he sat in the patient's room all day and chatted with me. He asked me out at the end of the day as I was leaving work.”

How and when did Andy propose?
Madeleine: "Andy proposed on April 28 on a trip to Ireland. I suspected something was up when he refused to let his suitcase out of his sight when we on a bus on the way to our hotel. The actual proposal happened when we were driving the Ring of Kerry. Our guidebook pointed us to a vista that was supposed to have the most beautiful views in all of Ireland. Andy was very eager to go, but when we got there there were at least three tour busses, so he quickly suggested we get back in the car and keep driving. Finally we stopped at a vista that we could have all to ourselves and that's where he proposed."

What are some things y'all like to do together?
Madeleine: "We enjoy the pursuit of trying every restaurant and brewery in Birmingham, beating our friends during game nights, trying to find a time to both sit down to watch the latest show we've been binge watching, and listening to records chosen by DJ Andy."

Madeleine-- describe Andy in three words.
Madeleine: "Andy is quick-witted, loyal and observant."

Andy-- describe Madeleine in three words.
Andy: "Madeleine is enthusiastic, steadfast and friendly."